I believe that Friar Lawrence is trying to say calm down, relax, you are rushing it. He said that you need to have a good relationship. I believe that it is good advice because Friar Lawrence is very experienced with weddings and love. I think that he knows what will happen in the future and he is trying to warn them because he is scared of the future. I don’t think that Romeo and Juliet will take that advice because I know what happens in the end and it is not really good. They aren’t moderate people because they wan’t to rush the marriage.