I think that Friar Lawrence is trying to tell Romeo and Juliet is it isn’t all butterflies and rainbows when you get married, you have your ups and downs and that it might not be how you want it all the time. Your not always going to get along. I also think that he is trying to tell them that they need to take things slow and need to calm down about getting married. I think that this is good advice because most people get themselves into things that they didn’t realize how it was going to turn out in the end. I think that Romeo and Juliet will not take this advice because they are so caught up in their love.