I think we keep secrets because we get ashamed for what we have done. With that we are afraid to tell someone because we don’t want them to judge us. Another reason could be is that we don’t want to get into trouble. If we keep the secrets and lie about what we have done then we are most likely to get into more trouble the longer we lie and don’t tell someone what is really going on. With talking to others we can help solve our problems and get help if we need it. If we don’t then no one will ever really know what is going on and it can turn out a lot worse then we can expect. This relates to us because we want to seem the best we possible can and to be popular. When really when we are all caught up in that then you can not be yourself cause you are to worried about how others see you so we lie about who or how we really are.